Sometimes as friends and even family we worry about so many un-important things in everyone else’s relationships.
We worry about why they don’t have a car.
Answer:
Not enough money.
We worry about who is working and who isn’t.
Answer:
A marriage is a joint effort and you are in it whether others approve or they do, you vowed to be in this partnership until death do you part.
As a wife, no matter what you may hear from other women when you are all sitting around a table full of cocktails and great food, we all want to know that we are loved and feel that we are loved and so no matter how hard we always say to ourselves that it will get better. There are many things that can change in your relationship but abuse is never anything that should be hid or concealed. I think there should be a number you call that sends out a vigilante woman that drops by your home and beats the living hell out of the man who obviously feels its ok to do it to you. Until that happens you can call this hotline:
1800 799 SAFE.
There is someone to talk to you about the next step, I mean you know, before the assassins are created. Remember also that there isn’t anything you should be doing differently and there aren’t any material items that can cause the hurting to stop. Him feeling stress isn’t any excuse either because if it was women would be the ones filling up the prisons and penitentiaries.
If your marriage or relationship happens to be great and without any problems then awesome for you, take the time to listen to your fiends or family that are really in trouble and take less time judging the ones who are not. The first letter of the word LOVE is L for listener. Listening.Openly.being Very.Empathetic. Just because in your life it might smell like roses it doesn’t mean you have the answers for all relationships, because while you are criticizing one for not doing the way you think they should we sometimes overlook someone who really needs our help.~Enjoy
